I have written about this before , but after broaching the subject on facebook a few weeks ago I've been thinking a lot about the whole colouring your hair deal. On facebook I asked when having natural coloured hair was going to become trendy like other old fashioned things like quilting and growing your veges? I am quite tired of how time consuming colouring my hair is and how expensive it is. A very interesting conversation resulted with a huge variety of opinions. Many of the women said they would be going natural, but of course they aren't gray now (and are my age) so I don't think that really counts. Until you ACTUALLY start going seriously gray/white you can't see how it impacts on the way you look. I think it is different to be almost white (like myself) at age 40 and agreeing in principle to going natural when it happens to you in the future (when you will be a lot older than I am now!). Just quietly, I'll believe it when I see it (let me thr...
Occasionally I get asked what I think about home schooling. Let me say from the outset that I'm not against it at all. I was actually homeschooled for Year 3 because I wasn't coping with the local Indian school and I wasn't old enough for boarding school. I have lots of friends who do it - some out of necessity (eg. missionary friends in remote places with no options) or out of choice (because their child doesn't cope with the mainstream school system). So I'm fine with the whole concept. I have great admiration for families that choose to provide that education for their kids. It is hard work and a significant drain on time and emotional energy (usually for the mum). I also think that it can be a great gift for children who would otherwise get lost in a conventional educational institution. But why wouldn't I do it? Partly because I did homeschooling myself and found it quite lonely. I missed the social interaction of school a...
This is OK I'm sure I've written about this before but every year I struggle with the pressure to be an uber mum and have some kind of Christmas craft decorating the house. Instead I end up with a leaning Christmas tree that the kids have decorated themselves (certainly not going to make the cut for a Myer catalogue), with lights that drove the husband to distraction to untangle. There's a trend (especially in Christian circles) to create family traditions. And I'm a total believer. Good, healthy childhood memories and traditions have been shown to be very significant in developing high levels of security and resilience. But over time the memories/tradition trend seems to have developed into some kind of Pinterest Christmas competition. No longer is the knitted nativity scene that Aunty Pip bought for us from the Mother's Union stall in 2003 enough. It needs to be done by me. And this is how my family will unite, bond and be functional. The ...
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